8 Ways to Make Someone Fall in Love with You
It’s been weeks, months since you met, and since that day, something has changed… You are in love!
Most of the time, it happens when you least expect it, a meeting, which seems to be the fruit of chance, a glance exchanged, and here is that you literally fall under the charm of this person of whom you still do not know much…
With time, by getting to know you, the attraction only grows, each time you see each other, and that you speak.
Because you wish to live a beautiful love story, you would like to put all the chances on your side, during the seduction phase and make sure to succeed in making her (him) fall in love with you, you are looking for advices and tips?
If each person is unique, if each man and each woman expect and look for something particular in love, seduction and attraction obey to certain laws, that we can better apprehend to succeed in making an interest, an attraction, feelings in a person (that you do not leave indifferent…) !
Back to 8 tips to apply to make someone fall in love…
1- Take care of your appearance and your presentation
In the first phase of seduction, everything is essentially based on your appearance. Indeed, when two people do not know each other, when they have just met, they judge each other on their appearance (this is actually a completely unconscious mechanism).
To seduce, it is better to put all the chances on your side. Attention, it is not a question of opting for provocative outfits (which could on the contrary make the man you like run away), but of taking care of your style. Colors that highlight you, clothes that are pleasant to wear (to feel comfortable, while you should be stressed to be able to see him (her) again) that subtly underline your silhouette, hairstyle, make-up, leave no detail to chance…
If you can, try to find out about her preferences. Some men prefer women who are very well dressed, while others like naturalness above all, it’s always good to know that!
2-Create physical and verbal closeness
If you want him or her to fall under your charm, you must have the opportunity to show him or her who you are! And for that, you’ll have to take care to create moments that are conducive to exchange. In the cafeteria, at the coffee machine at work or in the hallways of the college, try to provoke an exchange, dialogue, conversation so that you can not only show your interest, but also arouse his interest.
The body has a great importance in seduction. And if all people like to be respected in their private and intimate sphere, a few tender, tactile gestures can help you seduce them (a hand in the hair, a caress on the shoulder…)
3-Attention to the message of your body…
As we said, body language plays a big role in seduction. So if you want to make him fall in love, you must be vigilant on this point.
You should therefore avoid postures that are too closed, such as arms crossed against your chest, which show your desire to preserve yourself. Ideally, it is advisable to adopt the same posture as the person you are interested in, to show him/her that you are “on the same wavelength”, and do not hesitate to use interpretations, to decipher through his/her gestures, what he/she thinks of you!
4- Show your interest in the person
If you want to make him fall in love with you, he must already understand that you are interested in him. To do this, you should avoid too direct approaches (which most often only have the effect of scaring them away) and try to show your interest. You ask questions about his life, his work, the course of his day, his moods, all ways to show him that he is important.
Ideally, you should also get them to talk about things that are important to them, such as their passions. If he feels like he can talk to you, freely, he’s likely to fall for your charm!
5-Keep some mystery…
Because you are completely in love, you have a hard time keeping your distance. Even more, you want to share a lot of things with him, so you start revealing yourself too much (and a little too soon!).
To make him fall in love, it is essential to keep a part of mystery, to tickle his imagination and to make him want to know more about you…
So don’t reveal all your secrets, know how to cast doubt on your intentions sometimes, always remain evasive about your love life, about your expectations in love, he must want to know you, in the slightest detail!
6-Give yourself a chance to flirt!
Whatever we say, we all have our little tricks, our little tricks to seduce … For some, it will be a way to stand, to look more virile or attractive, others will know how to talk and move to make a man desirable, in fact, there are many ways to flirt …
To make him fall in love, you have to have fun playing with his desire, the desire to know you, and more… And for that, there is nothing like flirting, but in a light way (to keep the part of mystery and bring him to ask what you want…).
7-Make yourself independent and happy
Far from the cliché of the childish woman who seduces men by batting her eyelashes, it’s actually better to show yourself independent and happy… Just like women prefer mature and confident men to the cliché of the teenager who struggles to make decisions in life!
Love is supposed to transport us, to bring us to live unique adventures, to feel sometimes magical emotions, love is supposed to make us dream of a better, sweeter, happier life… So, if you want to make someone fall in love with you, the best thing to do is to make sure you present yourself in a positive way, to show him how sweet and joyful life can be with you.
Although we all have flaws and sadness in us, during the seduction phase, avoid venting about the pain, to show yourself positive and cheerful…
Be careful also, many relationships are taken by a notion of dependence. And at a time when love stories are unfortunately shorter and shorter (compared to past generations), men and women are most often looking for an independent partner, someone who knows how to live his life, enjoy his daily life, without being with his partner. Showing yourself to be independent sends a very positive message, which makes you, a man or a woman, particularly attractive…
8-Oser to tell him/her how exceptional he/she is
Finally, what is love if not to feel unique through the eyes of a person. Although we are not all inveterate romantics, we are all looking for a person who will know how to love us, understand us, appreciate us at our true value…
A person with whom it will be easy to talk, to open up, who will know how to find the right words to soothe our sorrows and doubts, and to accompany us on the path of life! Just as we wish we could find the person who helps us to feel beautiful, happy with our life, proud of us; someone who knows how to recognize our qualities, and to emphasize them even more…
So to make him fall in love with you, do not hesitate to compliment him, in a subtle way at first. Since you like him, there are inevitably many qualities that you would like to emphasize in him, so dare to talk about it, compliments always touch a person, right in the heart, especially when they are pronounced in all honesty!
Don’t miss out on this love story
Although love cannot be explained, in reality, there are many ways to seduce a person, to show them in a roundabout way how much you like them, and to make them consider you differently…
If you can never force someone to fall in love with you, you can on the other hand, by being patient, and by being inhabited by sincere feelings, succeed in making feelings arise in a person, who for various reasons, were still simply not aware of it…
To make someone fall in love with you is a very delicate and subtle thing, but dare to launch into the adventure, because it is better to have the regret of a disappointment, than the resentment of never having dared to say to this girl, to this boy, how much you like him, and to have passed by a beautiful love story…
